How to use strapon

One of the great things about strap-ons is that anyone can use them. If you have a penis, you can use a strap-on. You can use a strap-on to penetrate a partner of any gender, to subvert stereotypical gender roles or to play with those roles. You can use one for fun, or you can use one to manage erectile or orgasmic challenges.

So how do you actually have strap-on sex? Like any fashion risk, the best place to first try out a new harness is hanging out in your own space alone. If your harness has straps, put it on and take it off a few times until you know how everything works and have all the buckles adjusted to your body. Do this with the dildo attached, too — you might find you like the base of the dildo to sit lower or higher against your body, and the only way for sure is to try it in a few different positions.

Long time listener, first time caller! I have done a lot of research and picked up some tips on casually wearing the harness around the house, incorporating it into masturbation, what to do with it during sex for first time, researching via erotica, etc. I also happen to know that topping with a strap-on is a LOT of work. Aside from exercising in general specifically core strength how do I build stamina for the real deal? How do I practice without a partner?

Queer women have sex in all different types of ways, but sex with a strap-on dildo is definitely high-ranking for many of them. How old are you? Woman A: Twenty-four.